You over-analyze everything he did
He spent an hour to text you while it only takes 5 minutes to see you. He just lose interest in you, chats with another girl or too busy? Last time when he was with you, he stayed for half an hour, while the time before that he stayed for several hours when you ordered a pizza. Is he really going for a meeting? Or just avoiding you? If you care too much about everything he did, you are not okay with casual hook up?
You think he is a part of your life
When all the things you care about is the next time you go out, you will do everything to know more about him. Just sleeping together is far from enough. You might google him, search his name on Facebook and other social media. You will want to know what he is doing when he is not with you. You want to be a part of him and let him be part of you. That is a really bad new.
It takes more than just lovemaking to make your life better
Casual hookup apps allow people to get off the car whenever they want to. You know you shouldn’t ask for anything besides from a orgasm. But the problem is you do want more, such as a hug, date, conversation, etc. Indeed, but that is only for relationships.
Every decision you make needs his approval
What you wear, eat, and what you do will be approved by him. You are asking him opinion about every little thing and his idea will greatly influence your action. You know, even without his permission, you can do everything, but you just cannot help it but asking him and see if he is okay with it. Do you know the reasons? Because you want to attract him in every way, not just wearing.
You cannot accept the idea of him hooking up with someone else
In a casual hookup relationship, both parties can hookup with whoever they want without each other’s permission. Even though you think you can be okay with it, but it still hurts you, because you cannot imagine he would treat the other girl they way he treats you. If you think this way, your feelings towards him is far beyond casual hookups.